On January 16, 2025, Matt James announced his breakup with Rachael Kirkconnell via Instagram. In his heartfelt post, he shared a prayer, asking for strength to heal and peace as they parted ways. Matt expressed, "Father God, grant Rachael and I the fortitude to heal our shattered hearts." He also requested kindness and support from friends and family during this challenging time.
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Their Journey: Love on The Bachelor
The couple met during The Bachelor Season 25, where Matt James became the show’s first Black male lead. Rachael Kirkconnell quickly stood out during the initial episodes. She charmed Matt with a compliment when she stepped out of the limo, saying, "You are more good-looking in person!" Their connection deepened, and Rachael was chosen as Matt’s final pick.
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Overcoming Challenges and Controversies
Their relationship wasn’t without challenges. Shortly after The Bachelor aired in early 2021, Rachael faced backlash over racially insensitive behavior from her past.
Bachelor Nation’s Matt James and Rachael Kirkconnell have parted ways ???? pic.twitter.com/W4bCNUUs1u
— Chicks in the Office (@ChicksInTheOff) January 16, 2025